Customary Conflict And True Love

. And that means they are siblings," Uncl

happen!?!" Mr. Rusta

rt when they met?" this tim

y knew that they were from the s

ng his nephew about our customs including his

has he ever told Kintani about it? Absolutely not, right?" Mrs. Ang

e invisible," added Mr. Wisnu, joining in the grilling of Uncle Gindo who only blamed Uncle Ri

a warning for us who have been careless in educating and informing our nephews abo

o we continue with this eng

that and still force Kintani to be engaged to Ridwan, it is the same as thro

itself there are many tribes, including; Koto, Pilian

ust not be violated is marrying within the same tribe or the same tribe. For example, the Caniago tribe is not allowed to

n, Uncles who have an important position in a family will never ap

wedding receptions, marriage is not allowed in that area. If a couple from the same tr

ed family, if in the past the entire family would also be affected by all of that, in th

now not all areas in West Sumatra enforce this sanction. In the area where Ridwan and Kintani come from, this is sti

time it was Mr. Rustam who asked, he w

means it is no longer permissible for them to h

me city. Ridwan works there, while Kintani is studying,"

esn't Ridwan have an uncle

other, Gindo," re

ncle there? Regarding the cost of going to Jakar

ford it. What we are worried about now is how they feel, how devastated

at, so that our extended family will not be embarrassed la

ome later we will tell them about the eng

we don't have the heart because they didn't know anything about this from the start

" invited Mrs. Suci who had

Mom?" Ridwan looked surprised by his moth

we get home." This time, it was Mr. Ru

, who was also known to be obedient to both of them, fo

Mr. Wisnu and Mrs. Anggini approached Kintani who was still sitting cros

something. I hope you can understand it l

curiously because she saw Ridwan ha

won't be easy for you to accept. But what can I do, I have to reveal what rea

idwan," Uncle Gindo had not finishe

ened, why did it turn out like this?" Kintani was shocked beyond beli