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The Unfolding Life

Chapter 4 No.4

Word Count: 4751    |    Released on: 06/12/2017

EARLY CHILDH

FEEL

all his guest desires "is mine," and tears, and even blows ensue before amicable adjustment can be made. And so through the hours of a kaleidoscopic day, the emotional pendulum

on, shall we note some characteristi

g sort, but love given in response to love and attention. The child's feelings are easily aroused, fleeting, and usually more or less superficial. Abstractions, such as beauty, duty, responsibil

awaken a response of awe and wonder in his soul, and absolute confidence that He can do anything. But this same power and majesty, carelessly presented, may call out fear, not the godly sort that is afraid of grieving Him by sin, but the physical fear

are not pertinent to the chosen theme of this book. The only legitimate q

the feelings in character building must be c

t denies self for the Master's sake. Knowledge alone does not suffice for action. A man may be familiar with the claims of Jesus and even acknowledge them, but until he feels a great need of Him, he will not become a Christian. The sermon may compel the admiration of the mind, but unless it move the heart no man will pr

ng to the words of Dr. W.H. Payne, "At least the half, and perhaps the

feelings in order to secure right actions and consequent strong character. This development is secured

impression upon the soul." With older people, these impressions may come from without or from a thought within, but with little children they come almost entirely from without. The sort of feeling aroused will evidently depend upon the sort of impression that co

a feeling, true nurture asks, "In what way can these impre

t given thr

his is a method on which countless teachers and parents place their dependence. Suppose, for instance, reverence be the feeling desired; a thought of God's greatness and power and holiness must be given. If, to the sensitive so

Holy, Lord

earth are f

earth are p

d, mos

will be tru

ffective way of convey

ould feel, and this is what you ought to do," he is allowed to draw meanings and have feeling

," she said; "I won't have such nonsense. Look at him, with his first trousers on! I'm ashamed of him!" The superintendent did look and saw the new trousers, and in them the trembling little body, and a soul speechless with terror at facing for the first time, alone, the unknown experience of a great world, even though it was enclosed in four walls. There was no trace of relenting in the mother's face, and any plea for pity was useless. But the new trousers gave a possible key to the situation. "Why, so he has new trousers on!" the superintendent said. "I want to see them," and very thoroughly and

carefully guarded in delibera

in certain methods of evangelistic work with children, where results are measured by their hysterical condition when the meeting concludes. Contrast with this the gentleness which br

ry open its petals to hasten God's processes. Even the Divine Child "grew." "That is not first which

rces of suggestion to the child. The countless sights and circumstances of hi

r hostess; "I can't define it, but it makes me want to be good." Music may be suggestive, aside from what it actually says. It would seem as if no sane superintendent would prepare for prayer by a two step song, or follow the lesson on, "The Washing of the Disciples' Feet", by, "Columbi

s the difficult task of analyzing the impressions that come from s

aroused through doing the act which wo

es. Little children are so imitative that they quickly copy the outward manifestations of a feeling, and the inner state tends to follow. This is further a reaso

should not the child control himself?" some one asks. Instinctive feelings are stronger than the power of self control in the beginning, and life needs shielding more than testing. God say

sion of th

xpression is denied to the feeling, it tends to die out, and continual repression means a lessening either in power to act or power to feel. "Sentimentalists" have lost power to act except in tears or ejaculations when their emotions are stirred, and

on in the beginning. Love that is almost barter in early years, since it is bestowed for value received, if given constant expression in acts of helpfulness, will become the self-denying love of later years. Love for self, which is so strong in a child, can be developed toward its manifestation of self respect, by using it at first in childhood, "to help this good body g

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ngly, as the feeling of the passing moment impels him. Often one desire so completely absorbs his mind as to obscure everything else, and he will make any effort to gain his end. His case is like that of a man who "sets his heart

hat is meant by it? We know there is no separate faculty to be strengthened as the arm is strengthened. What can be trained? The only training possible is in helpi

this leads to habit in both feeling and action. The nurture of the will or executive power of the soul is seen, therefore, to be most intimately connected with the nurture of the feelings, and its work will consist in making the right course of action s

a tree will ever make it produce apples, and even so, no number of right acts imposed upon a child will, in itself, make him do right things voluntarily. This can only come through strengthening in his own soul the processes that lead to right action. The truth of this is proven in the case of thousands of boys who did the right things at home because they were compelled to do so,

ble doctrine; 'Let the child do as he pleases, if

thin which says it? No external power could have made Paul's record of service, or Brainerd's or Paton's. All the force of the Russian government was powerless to obtain that which each Japanese soldier poured out upon his country's altar in

pulsion. Through His favor and fellowship, the joy of His approval, the peace that passeth understanding, the "Well done

er approval or disapproval, her recognition and encouragement, the knowledge that, "Whatsoever a man soweth that must he also reap," gained through bearing the penalty or enjoying the reward of each choice, the right course made attractive in

val but God's favor, and for His sake, with face steadfastly set, the right is followed, even though

TO SUNDAY

cation of the foregoing discussion to its methods and work seems wise. It is evident tha

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timent of securing the babies' names and calling them, "Our Sweet Peas", has missed its purpose. A peculiar opportunity comes with the flood tide of new parental love. "If

rience, who can come close to other mothers because she, too, has known the valley of the shadow and the sacred joy of a new born life in her arms. A unique

NNERS' D

the years between three and six. Nurture

e lesson, the music, the prayer and all the differentiation of the day and place tend to elevate the teacher above those who share his daily life, and envelop her with an atmosphere more mystic and holy. She is connected not with clothes and bread and butter episodes, but wholly with the thought of Jesus, and stands by His side in the child's thought and love, and if he love not the teacher whom he has

ng must fulfill certain condi

children to change their position frequently. The separation will also remove the temptation for curiosity to obtain satisfaction through roving eyes. The place should provide comfortable seat

ses give him. There is no way to give him the thought of the beauty of holiness, and the joy that the religion of Jesus Christ brings, except to make every thing associated with it as glad and beautiful as may be. Choice pictures, flo

s. A Bible which can be kept before the children and reverently handled, to teach reverence by suggestion, is of first importance.

ionally, or models. Thoughtful teachers are more and more convinced that while Kindergarten principles should obtain, the Kindergarten should not be moved bodily into the Sunday School. Values must be balanced, and over against the reasons which might be given for bringing in all the equipment of the week-day environment, there is th

rn how to bring it down to the common things of life without sacrif

e thought desired, in music as well as words. Since this is the rhythmic and imitative period of life, motion songs can be occasionally used, provided the motions are not mechanical and artificial. The foot notes which say that at I the han

aroused and expressed during the hour's session. Music, Scripture, the enumeration of His blessings, the joy over birthdays and new scholars He has sent, the lesson, the carefully selected pictures and stories of what His love has done for other boys and girls unlike them, an atmosphere o

Course for Beginners" affords the best subject m

a little child have been carefully sele

make each truth clear and to fi

o be taught is given in stor

hing one truth, is simple, intelligible and, by repet

he lessons are very choice

senses, sight and touch make a clearer impression than hearing, large use should be made of them. Further, as this is the peri

eriod, is that the child may become truly a child of

is presented to him aright, he always responds in faith and love. In this response, the conditions upon which spiritual sonship is confe

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1 Chapter 1 FUNDAMENTAL PRINCIPLES OF DEVELOPMENT.2 Chapter 2 EARLY CHILDHOOD3 Chapter 3 No.34 Chapter 4 No.45 Chapter 5 CHILDHOOD-SIX TO TWELVE6 Chapter 6 THE JUNIOR AGE-NINE TO TWELVE7 Chapter 7 ADOLESCENCE8 Chapter 8 MIDDLE AND LATE ADOLESCENCE