Forbidden Feelings
a professional boundary. Ryan was opening up to her in ways he never
couldn't help but feel a deep connection to Ryan, a sense of u
wing sense of unease. She was getting too close to R
ional distance. But it was too late. Ryan had already
omething?" Ryan said,
. "What is it, Ryan?" she a
t being paranoid, but I feel like there's something between us," he
d Ryan sensed her feelings? And wh
. But she could sense the tension between them, a palp
a said, trying to sound convincing. "We're just
push the issue. Instead, he changed the subjec
out her childhood, her family, and her dreams. And as she spoke, she felt a deep co
ease. She had crossed boundaries, revealed too much abo
an said, as he stood up to leave
ut as she watched Ryan walk out of her office, she couldn't
was alone. She felt relieved that the session ended, but anxious aboutâwhat had taken
eing paranoid. But as she took a seat at her desk and stared blankly
e session. She had perceived something in his eyes, somethi
s it possible Ryan felt the same aboutâher? And what
ht asâbefore when her phone rang. It
oing?" Dr. Leeâsaid, h
ay. "I guess it's going OK," sheâsaid finall
more serious tone. "Wh
old Dr. Lee about Ryan's questions, about how he had lookedâat her. And sh
reful," she said atâlast. "You're getting too closeâto Ryan, and it's not
rusted Dr. Lee's adviceâand
eady in too deep. She had been too frank with hersel
ance between her and Ryan. She recognized her feelings,âand she understood
s. He pressed her about her personal life, andâhe made flirtatious comments
trouble. Sheâwas head over heels for Ryan. An
wh
to keep a professional distance. Ryan was charismatic andâch
âher patient, and her emotions needed to be containe
ething?" Ryan said one d
neutrality. "Of cour
wondering if you wanted to grab coffee withâme so
knew she shouldn'tâagree to this,
said, sounding reluctant. "I don't
I understand," he said. "I just thought it would be ni
t so good but she also realized she wasâleading him on, sh
m. "I'm your therapist, and I have toâkeep a professional boundary fro
last. "I just wanted moreâtime with you, Emma. You're an ama
and she hadâan emotional bond with him. But she also knew that she w
to me. Here's the thing: I need you toâhave a very
ointed. "Yes, I understand," he said.
she said. You're a wonderful patient,âand I'm glad to be wor
. "Okay, Emma. Forânow on, I
. She had been firm about the professional bounda
knew she was in trouble. She had romantic feelings fo