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The Ultimate Dating Diary

Chapter 3 How to Turn Yourself Into The One

Word Count: 2278    |    Released on: 06/12/2017

, it will also boost your confidence. You will become more easygoing and cool, and you will be abl

ing on their behavior. There is nothing against maintaining your appearance, but obsessing too much

ordinary? Then be extraordinary, so you can get the extraordinary. Everyone has their own talents and skills. All you hav

time comparing yourself to other women. They might have some qualities that you don"t have, but you will be have some of your own qualities that she doesn"t have. A confident woman never get

reer. Be independent. Engage in meaningful activities that you actually love. Surround yourself

e challenging and hence very much sought after. If you are independent, you will have the upper hand. You don"t have to listen

with people, the more confidence you will gain. Starting a co

like. You can start a conversation with anyone. It will also improve your communicati

d to you by now. But you are wrong. He might be crushing over you and

for them to strike a conversation with you. Just because they

sn"t want to be embarrassed in front of his friends. Nobody wants to get rejected. Why go through s

Don"t give up after a rejection. If you gave up after every re

n think that there is too much comp

t whether he has any other qualities that you like. Whenever you see a guy that you are attracted to, you force your mind to think that he has all the qualities that you desire, but remember, he is just someone you wan

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you feel good

u the way a lady

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ut more than that is a bad idea. People around your age will have sim

able with and what you are not comfortable with. Tell hi

ething serious, posting about your relationship on social media is

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ss him on th

ty. It may be a success or it may be a failure. Be ready to accept reje

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ok on the first date. Be a lady, but don"t overdo it. Be yo

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you need something, tell him. If you need any help ask

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ation falters. You can talk about school, your hobbies,

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n have. You can act goofy. Be a cool and easy person to ha

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ays something funny. It will make him mor

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k him a few questions too. You can ask him to elaborate on something. Guys love it when

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e genuinely interested in him. But be prepared to pay. It would be a l

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him to read between the lines and end up getting di

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will make the date fu

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t you really are. You don"t have to change anything for him. If they can

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es. Don"t recite conversations, or you might as well ask him to hand over his resume. Be spontaneous.

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on topics to talk about. Opt for something like lunch or a drink. But don"t go dumping

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. It shows that you ap

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your friends. It will be relaxing for both of you. Remember, do not t

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f you are arrogant, no one will like you, and you might end up with some loser. Simplicity

your confidence is, before you go to the date, you can make a list of things that you like about yourse

rward to seeing you again" and stuff like that. If you did not like him much, you can

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lder if you are watching a movie together, it i

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tion, look him in the eye and do not look down. Looking away

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reats you like a pushover. Saying " you look really nice ", or "wow, nice outfit" is acceptab

or "No I don"t" or "You are kidding" or "You think so?". It shows that you are insecure

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ume, and apply it liberally over the pulse po

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Wear whatever you are comfortable with. Dress in softer shades during your first few dates. Dressing out o

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major turnoff. If you do it right you can pull it

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able, but keep it light. Do

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e that your hands are clean and your legs well groomed. It will make

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xpensive unless you are

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on the lips is acceptable, but again it depends on the social min

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the right thing to the right person at the right time. Know his taste. A

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ct someone else. Be positive. Do not let anyone bring you down. Do not ever be

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Things You Sho

YOURSELF AND

uld learn to love yourself first. If you do not love yourself, you cannot e

elationships are about acceptance and tolerance. Do not try to be perfect for others.

ours

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